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Joseph J. (Jay) Carrig
January 20, 1983 ~ June 23, 2017 (age 34) 34 Years Old Light a Candle
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A candle was lit by Katelyn Schultz
on July 4, 2017 4:04 PM
Message from Begley, Mucica, and Bronson (Elaine and Tim) Families
July 1, 2017 2:44 PM
To the Carrig Family,
We are very sorry for the loss of your son. Karen, you have always been kind and helpful toward our family. Your son sounded like a wonderful man and the two of you shared the same beautiful smile. Please take comfort in knowing others are thinking of you and your family during this very difficult time.
We are very sorry for the loss of your son. Karen, you have always been kind and helpful toward our family. Your son sounded like a wonderful man and the two of you shared the same beautiful smile. Please take comfort in knowing others are thinking of you and your family during this very difficult time.
A candle was lit by Katelyn Schultz
on June 30, 2017 7:45 AM
Message from Katelyn Schultz
June 29, 2017 4:33 PM
To Mr an Mrs Carrige, I'm So Sorry For the Loss of ur Son . Jay was a Funny Guy.
Message from Joel Chrisman
June 28, 2017 9:58 PM
Bill and Karen
I'm so sorry to hear about J.J. It was very shocking to hear after just asking Bill about him a few weeks ago .Stay strong and think of the good times
I'm so sorry to hear about J.J. It was very shocking to hear after just asking Bill about him a few weeks ago .Stay strong and think of the good times
A candle was lit by Stephanie drake
on June 28, 2017 5:37 PM
Message from Katelyn Schultz
June 28, 2017 8:22 AM
Jay you will Be Missed By all of us. I just you were Still here
A candle was lit by Katelyn Schultz
on June 28, 2017 8:19 AM
A candle was lit by Cary and Neoma Gomez
on June 28, 2017 4:14 AM
A candle was lit by A fellow NY Giants fan who will miss our weekly check-ins...
on June 27, 2017 10:40 PM
A candle was lit by Sue Carpenter
on June 27, 2017 8:47 PM
Karen, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I can not even imagine what you are going through. I was at work and unable to come to calling hours. Please know I hold you and your entire family up in prayers. I'm here if you need me. I work sun thru wed at Top Notch. With deepest sympathy and love, Sue
Karen, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I can not even imagine what you are going through. I was at work and unable to come to calling hours. Please know I hold you and your entire family up in prayers. I'm here if you need me. I work sun thru wed at Top Notch. With deepest sympathy and love, Sue
A candle was lit by Co-workers at The House of the Good Shepherd
on June 27, 2017 1:38 PM
A MONET'S GARDEN TABLE BASKET was sent by Uncle David Carrig on June 27, 2017
Message from Paul
June 27, 2017 11:06 AM
Karen and Family, please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of your loved one. We are thinking of you and keeping all in our thoughts and prayers. Paul and Kathy McGuire
A candle was lit by The Bailey Family
on June 27, 2017 10:32 AM
Message from Joe Ahern
June 27, 2017 9:40 AM
I am sorry for your loss. My you all find comfort in your memories and may Jay rest in peace.
Message from Debbie Manley
June 27, 2017 4:45 AM
Bill and Karen I am so sorry for you loss. This is not how the circle of life is suppose to go. My prayers are for you and your family that you find comfort that JJ is with the Lord and that he will never leave you. He will always be with you in your heart and in your memories.
A candle was lit by Debra Manley
on June 27, 2017 4:40 AM
A candle was lit by Fulmer nancy
on June 27, 2017 12:04 AM
Message from Barbara Pawluk
June 26, 2017 11:56 PM
Billy, Karen, and family,
I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved son. Thinking of you with sympathy and compassion.
Barbara Pawluk
I was so sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved son. Thinking of you with sympathy and compassion.
Barbara Pawluk
Message from Tim Welpe
June 26, 2017 11:20 PM
Bill and Karen and the entire Carrig Family, Sincere condolences on your loss. Thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Message from Krystina, Lisa, Sarah Soho
June 26, 2017 9:35 PM
Karen family, I'm so sorry to hear your son lost. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless your family during this difficult time.
Message from Susan and Alton Gage
June 26, 2017 8:24 PM
Billy, Karen,and Rachel - So,shocked and saddened by the news,of J J's passing. We remember him to,be a very,friendly and kind person. We are praying for all of you at this most difficult time. Sending all our live to you.
Message from Sarah Crimmins Harrer
June 26, 2017 8:15 PM
Jay was an unforgettable friend. He made me feel like I meant something every time I was near him. He shined with love, generosity, and laughter. My heart hurts and the tears flow with every wonderful memory. May you all find peace and feel his presence with you always. All my love...
A candle was lit by Nora & Ken Bonnell
on June 26, 2017 6:35 PM
A candle was lit by Thinking and praying for your family
on June 26, 2017 6:25 PM
Message from Jim and Joyce Kaufman
June 26, 2017 3:15 PM
Our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers for all of you.
A candle was lit by Angela Barone-Cassia
on June 26, 2017 2:46 PM
A candle was lit by Rita Wilkerson
on June 26, 2017 11:18 AM
Message from Sara George
June 26, 2017 10:48 AM
Billy, Karen & Rachel:
I am at a total loss for words. JJ was a truly amazing kid who was taken away way too early. I hope that you will all be able to find comfort during this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers now and forever.
Love, Sara George
I am at a total loss for words. JJ was a truly amazing kid who was taken away way too early. I hope that you will all be able to find comfort during this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers now and forever.
Love, Sara George
A candle was lit by Sara George
on June 26, 2017 10:44 AM
A candle was lit by Eileen and Katelyn
on June 26, 2017 10:33 AM
A candle was lit by Patches
on June 26, 2017 10:31 AM
A DISH GARDEN WITH FRESH FLOWERS was sent on June 26, 2017
Bill & Karen, This is so Heartbreaking. No words can describe how very sorry we are for your loss of JJ. Please know that we are here for you always. Love, Chuck & Ellen McLaughlin
A candle was lit by Chuck and Barb McCauley
on June 26, 2017 10:10 AM
Message from Chuck and Barb McCauley
June 26, 2017 10:10 AM
There are no words that can convey how sorry we are for your loss.
Message from Lorri Ingersoll
June 26, 2017 9:31 AM
Dear Karen, Selena, and family, words can not express my deepest sympathy. Jay was such a wonderful, caring, energetic, enthusiastic person. He touched so many lives., and he will not be forgotten. He lives on in the heart of everyone he touch.
A candle was lit by Catherine
on June 26, 2017 9:13 AM
Message from Kevin and Kathy McKinney
June 26, 2017 8:38 AM
Karen, Billy and Rachael,
This is so hard to believe. We are so sorry to hear of the passing of JJ. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Love Kevin and Kathy McKinney
This is so hard to believe. We are so sorry to hear of the passing of JJ. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Love Kevin and Kathy McKinney
A candle was lit by David Armstrong
on June 26, 2017 8:30 AM
Message from David (Davey) Armstrong
June 26, 2017 8:30 AM
To Mr. & Mrs. Carrig, Rachael, Selena, and the rest of the Carrig family & friends -
It is difficult to find the words to convey my deepest, sincerest condolences to you. I am so deeply sorry for the loss of JJ (Jay), and wish you all of the love, sympathy, and support you may need in the days ahead. Although it had been years since I last saw or spoke to Jay, it is not surprising to hear that he had made a career of helping others. Jay always had a depth, and generosity of spirit, and could easily light up a room with a funny joke, or thoughtful commentary. He was gifted academically, and athletically - and some of my fondest high school memories are playing alongside Jay on the soccer field.
The actress Linda Blair once said, "People always joke that "dog" spells "god" backwards. They should consider that it might be the higher power coming down to see just how well they do, what kind of people they are. The animals are right here, right in front of us. And how we treat these companions is a test." I know that Jay passed this test with flying colors...
With heartfelt condolences -
David (Davey) Armstrong & Melissa Martinez
It is difficult to find the words to convey my deepest, sincerest condolences to you. I am so deeply sorry for the loss of JJ (Jay), and wish you all of the love, sympathy, and support you may need in the days ahead. Although it had been years since I last saw or spoke to Jay, it is not surprising to hear that he had made a career of helping others. Jay always had a depth, and generosity of spirit, and could easily light up a room with a funny joke, or thoughtful commentary. He was gifted academically, and athletically - and some of my fondest high school memories are playing alongside Jay on the soccer field.
The actress Linda Blair once said, "People always joke that "dog" spells "god" backwards. They should consider that it might be the higher power coming down to see just how well they do, what kind of people they are. The animals are right here, right in front of us. And how we treat these companions is a test." I know that Jay passed this test with flying colors...
With heartfelt condolences -
David (Davey) Armstrong & Melissa Martinez
Message from Fina and Charlie Balderston
June 26, 2017 7:43 AM
Karen and Bill we are so sorry for your loss.
A candle was lit by patricia mcglynn
on June 26, 2017 6:58 AM
Message from patricia mcglynn
June 26, 2017 6:57 AM
my prayers and thoughts are with you at this time.
A candle was lit by You wii be. Missed
on June 26, 2017 3:51 AM
A candle was lit by Dan Tyson (Malfred)
on June 26, 2017 12:42 AM
A candle was lit by George Warmuth
on June 26, 2017 12:03 AM
A candle was lit by Marie and Steve
on June 25, 2017 11:24 PM
A THE COLOR OF MEMORIES TABLE ARRANGEMENT was sent on June 25, 2017
To the family of Jay, or as we knew him: Kheldan. We are his World of Warcraft family of Nox Oriens and we loved Jay like family. His expressive and colorful nature left a positive mark on so many of us and we are fortunate to have known him. We are sorry for all our loss. Love and prayers to all.
Message from Sue, Gregg & Peter DeLuca
June 25, 2017 10:02 PM
Karen, Bill and Rachel
There are no words that will make this any easier. Love to you
There are no words that will make this any easier. Love to you
Message from Jason Petras
June 25, 2017 9:42 PM
Bill and Karen, so sorry for your loss! My thoughts are with you both!
Message from Alena LaPone
June 25, 2017 9:13 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Praying that you all will find comfort during this difficult time.
A candle was lit by Alena LaPone
on June 25, 2017 9:10 PM
A TABLE BASKET was sent on June 25, 2017
To the family of Joseph or as we knew him Evil Toast. We at the Shock and Awe clan spent many hours hanging out with Toast he was always a polite and happy young man. We were fortunate to have known him. We would like to say how sorry we are for your loss and your in our prayers.
Message from Pat and Craig Wright
June 25, 2017 8:38 PM
Dear Karen, Bill, Rachel and family,...We are so very sorry for your loss...Jay J was always a good friend to Matt and spent lots of time at our house on Woodside. He was a kind, polite and courteous young man and always found time to talk with us when he visited. We are sincerely sorry to hear of his passing and we pray that God will help all of you at this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
A candle was lit by Jessica Congdon
on June 25, 2017 8:35 PM
Message from Kim Ackerman Bowman
June 25, 2017 8:30 PM
Karen, Billy and Rachael,
I am so shocked to hear about JJ. I feel so sorry for all of you. That's something no parent should ever have to face. I know we haven't talked in quite awhile, but I had to write and tell you how sorry I am. Please try to stay strong. Remember the good times with him. May he rest in peace.
I am so shocked to hear about JJ. I feel so sorry for all of you. That's something no parent should ever have to face. I know we haven't talked in quite awhile, but I had to write and tell you how sorry I am. Please try to stay strong. Remember the good times with him. May he rest in peace.
A candle was lit by Alicia Iacovetta
on June 25, 2017 8:06 PM
Message from Alicia Iacovetta
June 25, 2017 8:05 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to the whole family. I remember how close he was with Rachael and I pray that you will all find comfort in family and God during this difficult time. You are all in my prayers.
A candle was lit by Diane Getman
on June 25, 2017 6:57 PM
Message from Sharon Riesel-Oldfield
June 25, 2017 6:57 PM
I send my deepest sympathy to you all. My love and prayers.
A candle was lit by Mark Zysk
on June 25, 2017 6:21 PM
Message from Mark Zysk
June 25, 2017 6:20 PM
Billy and Karen
I'm so sorry to read of Your sons passing. You are in my thoughts and Prayers
I'm so sorry to read of Your sons passing. You are in my thoughts and Prayers
Message from Sandi and John wildey
June 25, 2017 5:13 PM
Karen,Bill and Rachel I am so very sorry for the loss of JJ....my heart is breaking for you all......such an amazing young man.......thinking of you. Love you...... Sandi and John
A candle was lit by Sandi and John wildey
on June 25, 2017 5:07 PM
Message from Sherry Restante &Steve Pazzanese
June 25, 2017 4:42 PM
Karen, Billy and family, we're so very sorry to hear about Jays passing..
Our thoughts and prayers are with you,God bless you and your entire family
During this difficult time. 🙏🏻
Our thoughts and prayers are with you,God bless you and your entire family
During this difficult time. 🙏🏻
Message from Frank and Nancy Tangorra
June 25, 2017 3:48 PM
Love and hold each other tight..... We can't even fathom what you are going thru, but know that we will be praying for you all! Love, Frank and Nancy Tangorra
Message from Laura Crimmins
June 25, 2017 3:43 PM
I am deeply saddened at the loss of such a good man. Jay was and always will be one of my closest friends. We started as work buddies at HARC to growing into such a strong friendship of trust, laughter and love. Jay was a shoulder through many hard times. As a single mom, Jay knew my struggle and bought Christmas presents for all of my children. I never knew how to thank him enough for just being there. I love you Jay... JC... You will be with me always in my heart.
A candle was lit by Jennifer Rickard
on June 25, 2017 3:23 PM
Message from Roxanne Casadonte
June 25, 2017 3:22 PM
I'm so sad to hear of JJ's passing. What a wonderful guy and a great friend to my son Marcus. He always made me smile with his quick wit and bright smile. He will be missed by the Casadonte family.
Message from Heather Richardson
June 25, 2017 2:49 PM
To Jay's family, I am so sorry for you lose. Jay was an amazing person, we played a video game together for over 10 years, many of us that knew him are in shock and very sadden by his passing.
Jay had a way of making every person he met feel special about themselves. He was able to always make everyone laugh and smile. I always looked forward to raid days, because I knew that if I was having a crappy day and if Jay was there he always made it much better. The game will never be the same without. We will miss all his crazy stories, jokes, come backs, movie/tv quotes, recipes. His light will always be missed.
Last semester I told Jay that I couldn't stand the class I was in and I was so bored, so he took upon himself to send me meme's everyday to keep me entertained. I know it seems silly or stupid but I don't think so, because that was the type of person he was. Giving a lot of himself to the world.
One of the things I remember most is how he always helped people and how much he loved Selena, his family and his dog Abe. I send all my love and strength to his family and friends to get through this time.
Jay had a way of making every person he met feel special about themselves. He was able to always make everyone laugh and smile. I always looked forward to raid days, because I knew that if I was having a crappy day and if Jay was there he always made it much better. The game will never be the same without. We will miss all his crazy stories, jokes, come backs, movie/tv quotes, recipes. His light will always be missed.
Last semester I told Jay that I couldn't stand the class I was in and I was so bored, so he took upon himself to send me meme's everyday to keep me entertained. I know it seems silly or stupid but I don't think so, because that was the type of person he was. Giving a lot of himself to the world.
One of the things I remember most is how he always helped people and how much he loved Selena, his family and his dog Abe. I send all my love and strength to his family and friends to get through this time.
A candle was lit by Oriente, FWLM
on June 25, 2017 2:45 PM
Jay was a longtime member and senior officer of our online gaming group, the 13th Oriente Hussars of the FWLM, and last night's news of his sudden and unexpected passing has both shocked and deeply saddened us. He was a wonderful friend and comrade, and always good for a hearty laugh. His memory will live on in our group, and we will always remember him and the good times we shared together over the past few years.
We'll see you on the other side some day, Jay!!!
James P. Rife and Jay's many buddies from 13OH
Jay was a longtime member and senior officer of our online gaming group, the 13th Oriente Hussars of the FWLM, and last night's news of his sudden and unexpected passing has both shocked and deeply saddened us. He was a wonderful friend and comrade, and always good for a hearty laugh. His memory will live on in our group, and we will always remember him and the good times we shared together over the past few years.
We'll see you on the other side some day, Jay!!!
James P. Rife and Jay's many buddies from 13OH
A candle was lit by Sarah Stoquert
on June 25, 2017 2:30 PM
A candle was lit by Tanya Tyson
on June 25, 2017 2:05 PM
A candle was lit by Terissa Cosar
on June 25, 2017 2:03 PM
Message from lori McCumber and John MANCUSO AND THE mCCUMBER FAMILY
June 25, 2017 11:52 AM
To the Carrig family, Karen and billy Im at a total loss of words. There are no words to take your pain away. I m ever so sad and sorry for the loss of your son and brother to your daughter. Know our prayers and thoughts are with you. May God give you all some comfort Know our prayers are with you all Stay strong Karen, your always your mothers child God has given you a guardian angel to make sure you all are ok. RIP JJ
Message from Katelyn
July 3, 2017 9:28 AM
I'm Very Sorry for ur Loss of J.J. He was Fun to be with went he did the outings. May God Be w y.
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